Mitt Romney Bully Story Is An Issue Because He's Still A Bully

By now, you've probably heard about how Mitt Romney allegedly bullied a kid in high school.  Mitt's "denial" was that he did some crazy things in high school, doesn't remember this incident, and besides, he didn't know the kid was gay.


First, gay kids aren't the only ones who get bullied.  As a straight kid who got bullied a lot, I know.


Second, by saying he didn't know the kid was gay, but doesn't remember this incident leads me to think that maybe he did bully the kid.  Maybe not to the extreme portrayed in the post, but by his own admission, he wasn't exactly an angel.


So, why does it matter?  Well, because Mitt hasn't really grown out of it.  As Paul Begala wrote:

One can draw a straight line from the young man who pinned down a terrified teenager and walked a blind man into a closed door, to the adult who put the family dog in a kennel and strapped it to the roof of the car, to the businessman who laid off hundreds of people, cancelled their health benefits, and paid himself millions while their company went bankrupt. And the line continues: the governor who slashed education and raised fees on the middle class, and the possible president who would use his power to cut taxes on his fellow millionaires while pushing for the gradual demise of traditional Medicare. 

Then there is the aura of someone who acts as if the rules don't apply to him.The Post reported that the abused boy was ultimately expelled from Cranbrook—for smoking a cigarette. Really. The victim got expelled for smoking a cigarette, but Mitt faced no sanctions for maliciously victimizing a vulnerable student and a teacher. It's good to be a prince. Maybe that's why Romney felt entitled to take a $10 million bailout for Bain, but opposed President Obama's bailout of the auto industry. He thinks there's one set of rules for the privileged, and another for the rest of us.

There is also the story of his arrest for disorderly conduct.  He had gone to  launch his boat in a lake.  There was a park ranger there who told him not to launch the boat because the registration had been painted over.  Mitt launched anyway, because it's only a $50 fine.  That "I'll do what I want" attitude is common among bullies.  

Or, there's any time a reporter or someone else calls him out on his "evolving" stances on issues.  You see, Mitt Romney is consistent on issues.  His current stance is the stance he's always had, regardless of what evidence you have to the contrary.  Mitt has always been at war with Oceania.  He gets upset when you ask him why he used to be at war with Eurasia.

Character matters in politics.  People's character often doesn't change in their lives.  If Mitt could provide any examples that his character has changed, I'd give him credit.  Unfortunately, evidence shows that he hasn't changed.

Bullying

This year, the Utah Legislature is sponsoring a bill to encourage school boards to adopt anti-bullying policies.

Cliff Lyon has started mybully.org to promote this bill.

Bullying is a topic I know a thing or two about. When I first started in education 2 years ago, a small part of my job was to be partially in charge of working with kids on bullying (or non-bullying, which is more gramatically correct?). However, any efforts I had made were unsupported by the administration. Their main concern was to make sure that the school did not get labeled as "failing" again for No Child Left Behind. It was leaving children behind.

However, this was not my first exposure to bullying. In Elementary School, I was picked on for being the big kid who talked funny but was really smart (too smart). My parents talk about how wonderful that Principal was in taking me under his wing, and putting a stop to the problems. In sixth grade, my family moved to Holladay, and I started a new school in a new school district with my seventh grade year. The bullying started over again, as I was still the big kid who talked kinda funny. The bullying happened mostly on the way home from school, but also happened during school. The administartion there was not as supportive, and didn't get why it was a problem.

But, in the middle of seventh grade, something happened. I was goofing around in class one day, talking funny, my friend noticed that I did a fairly dead-on impersination of Cookie Monster from Sesame Street. The bullying continued that year, until it all came to a head near the end of the year. Having been fed up with getting shoved against my locker all year, I chased the pusher down the hall, and shoved him to the ground. The "fight" amounted to a pushing match until someone stepped in for me, taking the fight on. You see, kids had thought that Cookie Monster was cool, and were willing to get into a fight for me.

The next two years at that school were great, with me having lost a close election by 3 votes for school historian. By the end of high school, I had confidence, and practically owned the school. I was still the big kid who talked kinda funny, but I had overcome the bullying.

Unfortunately, my story is the exception, not the rule. You see, most victims continue to be vicitms, or they end up beating up or killing the bullies (i.e. Columbine). Most bullies grow up to work for FOXNews. I bet Karl Rove terrorized the halls of Olympus High before I got there.

However, on reflecting back on the period between the elemntary bullying and jr high bullying, I realized something. I had become a bully. Nothing major, most of the time, but there was this one song I sang with my friends...

"Jeremy Pool, he thinks he's cool, he even likes to go to school..."

I don't remember the rest, but it had something to do with liking girls. Now, the kids tease each other about being gay, but I digress.

For singing that song, I feel bad. I am a bully.

-Bob